Mediation

Family Mediation
Jane Wright is a member of the Family Mediators Association and the Mediation Network.
This allows us to offer mediation for all divorcing or separating couples, helping them to come to an amicable arrangement in respect of property, finance and/or children.

What is mediation?
Mediation assists couples (whether separating or divorcing) to communicate with each other and to reach informed decisions about their finances, their children or any other matters.
It is a voluntary and informal alternative to court proceedings.

How does it work?
It works through meetings with one or two qualified mediators who have professional experience in family law, counseling and family work.
Mediators help couples tackle the legal, financial and emotional problems associated with separation and divorce, as well as arrangements for children.

Is this the same as counselling?
No – Mediation is there to assist couples in negotiating arrangements for housing, finances, children and property once the relationship has broken down.
There may be anger and distress between the couple, and the mediators will help to channel and contain discussions.  They encourage couples to reach joint decisions wherever possible, sometimes referring them for counselling, if required.

What about the Children?
Parents who can co-operate offer their children a better chance of surviving the break.
Mediation will not take parents’ decisions from them but will help them to negotiate arrangements which will benefit the family as a whole.
The aim is for a continuing good relationship between each parent and their children.

Is mediation confidential?
Yes – Mediators treat all discussions as strictly confidential except:

* When someone’s safety or welfare may be in danger or

* For the disclosure of financial information

The basis for mediation is that all information is shared.

Do we need lawyers?
Mediation is designed for couples who prefer to work out their family problems for themselves, with the professional help of mediators.
Mediators document any proposals for settlement, and each person is encouraged to seek legal advice from their own solicitor.

Why mediation?

* The couple retain control over decisions

* Conflict is minimized, respect maintained

* Couple and parental co-operation is encouraged

* Children’s needs are considered

* Expensive contested proceedings are avoided and costs limited

How may sessions will be needed and what is the cost?
Mediation sessions usually last one and a half hours.
The number of sessions required depends on the nature and complexity; generally three to six sessions are needed.
Fees are payable at the end of each session, and may be shared between the couple in any way they may agree.

For more information or to arrange an appointment, please contact us during office hours at 01483 771 733